Sullivan’s Steak House was crowded, as most suburban
shopping center restaurants are on a typical Wednesday night. My father told me
how much he liked it so I said let’s go to dinner there. The older my father got,
the more he seemed to want to talk to me…or maybe I just wanted to hear more of
what he had to say, as I got older. Regardless, we had some really good
conversations over dinner in his later years. And on this night, the subject
turned to our military service and then to D-Day.
The draft caught up with my father in 1942 and, after going
into the US Army, he was accepted into Officer Candidate School. He did his
training and ended up in Buzzard’s Bay, Massachusetts at the entrance to Cape
Cod. He was preparing to be sent overseas to the European Theater of World War
II. He never told me whether he chose the field artillery or it chose him but
that’s where he ended up, as I did when it came my turn to serve. We had that
in common.
Dad was in charge of a unit that would follow the ground
troops onto the beach. They were to provide cover from the German Luftwaffe
that they were sure would show up very quickly. They conducted exercises
every day, setting up as fast as possible and preparing to fire in rapid succession. It was
tiring and stressful but the consensus was clearly to get on with it. He did say
they were well fed in England. Not a lot of meat but the cottage pie was a true
delicacy (my English friend Julia makes the best I’ve ever tasted!).

By the end of May, they knew the invasion was imminent and
beginning June 1, every day could have been the day. D-Day was first scheduled
for June 5th but the weather was so bad it was delayed until the 6th.
Late the night before, they boarded the ships for the 100 mile trip across the
channel to Normandy. Dad said they painted “Thank You” to the Brits on the
roads as they left town for the harbor.
While
loading on the boats, Dad said that troops were already quoting from Patton’s
famous speech, given to his armored division earlier in the week.
“Men, all this stuff you hear about America not wanting to fight, wanting to stay out of the war, is a lot of bullshit. Americans love to fight...” Supposedly, Patton never wrote down “The Speech”. Accounts from soldiers who heard him have been used to reconstruct it. The version we’ve all heard George C. Scott give at the beginning of his Academy-Award-winning portrayal in the Patton movie is said to be a very reasonable facsimile. Regardless, Dad said the “Bullshit” line was on everyone’s lips as they boarded the boats.
The overnight crossing was rough but Dad didn’t get sick…probably because he had not eaten anything that day due to the level of stress. The infantry landed in the first wave and then Dad’s artillery moved in to ward off German fighter planes and to fire on the gun emplacements on the top of the bluff above the beach. Dad said there was blood in the water and bodies covered the beach when they disembarked. The smell of gun-powder was thick in the air. He had what he thought was a panic attack but pushed through it by getting the guns set up.
“Men, all this stuff you hear about America not wanting to fight, wanting to stay out of the war, is a lot of bullshit. Americans love to fight...” Supposedly, Patton never wrote down “The Speech”. Accounts from soldiers who heard him have been used to reconstruct it. The version we’ve all heard George C. Scott give at the beginning of his Academy-Award-winning portrayal in the Patton movie is said to be a very reasonable facsimile. Regardless, Dad said the “Bullshit” line was on everyone’s lips as they boarded the boats.
The overnight crossing was rough but Dad didn’t get sick…probably because he had not eaten anything that day due to the level of stress. The infantry landed in the first wave and then Dad’s artillery moved in to ward off German fighter planes and to fire on the gun emplacements on the top of the bluff above the beach. Dad said there was blood in the water and bodies covered the beach when they disembarked. The smell of gun-powder was thick in the air. He had what he thought was a panic attack but pushed through it by getting the guns set up.
It took three days to secure Omaha Beach before they
moved on into the countryside. He said time was a blur and he didn’t remember
sleeping, although he was sure he did. D-Day was the beginning of a six-month
march to drive the enemy back to Germany. His side bar stories were fascinating
including his commandeering of a German motorcycle which he used for some
time…until he crashed it on a bridge abutment and broke his nose. And he
remembered vividly going past Flanders Field “where poppies grow” while
fighting across Belgium. My grandfather taught me the World War I poem about
the rows of crosses on a blanket of poppies when I started school. The red
poppies became a symbol of comrades lost for war veterans on Memorial Day and
Dad pressed one into his field manual to bring home. I still have it.

We closed down Sullivan’s Steak House that night and
continued the conversation on the drive home. I wish I’d had my reporter’s
notebook with me, but I fortunately I did write a lot of this down later in my
journal. It’s the only time my father really ever opened up about the war and
D-Day. It is a cherished dialogue that I will carry with me forever.
But “Johnny” did come marching home and I’m very glad he
did. He taught me so much. He set the bar very high and showed me how to clear
it, with room to spare…or to run around it, if that was the best course. There’s
so much to say about “The Greatest Generation”. D-Day was not just the beginning
of the end of World War II. It was the beginning of a new era in our
country and the world. We began to grow…faster, stronger, better. Now that we
have all been through a time that is close to the depression that my parents
experienced, perhaps we’ll gain the strength, fortitude and compassion to face
what the future holds for us. I hope so.