A special Japanese family tradition that is carried on in
Hawaii is the making of mochi (pron. moe-chee) for the New Year’s holiday. The Japanese New Year is the same as in
western cultures…January 1. Traveling to
the island of Kauai for many years, we have made several friends there who are
locals. The Umakoshi family is very
special to us. The matriarch is Akiyo
Honjo or, as she is affectionately known, “Ma”.
Her daughter Amy Umakoshi and her family have welcomed us into their
home for many years now to make mochi.
In fact, we remember making mochi 12 years ago for the last
Year of the Dragon and we had been partaking in the tradition for some time
before that. Amy has three sons and a daughter and they have families, so the holiday date is
set when they can all be together. Jane
and I are honored that they would include us and, for a while, we only observed
because we felt like we might be intruding.
Eventually we were invited to the table to make the mochi and I’ll say
being good at it is not easy. However, I take advantage of the tradition that
if you make a bad mochi, you have to eat it.
Sometimes I’m not as careful as I should be…on purpose.
Mochi is sort of a rice dumpling. It’s filled with sweet beans, herbs or sweet
potatoes, among other things, and shared with family and friends as a holiday treat. There are mochi-making machines but tradition
so often comes with old-fashioned methods and the Umakoshi’s make mochi from scratch.
There are several days of preparation, buying and cooking
the beans and herbs, soaking the special rice and getting the trays and other utensils
together in the special covered garden addition to their home where the mochi
is made. When the day arrives Sueharu
Umakoshi, who helped build the famous Coco Palms resort and actually saw Elvis
when he made the movie Blue Hawaii, is up in the early hours building a fire of
koa wood in his home-made barbeque grill.
It is there that rice is steamed to perfection before being pounded into
dough.
The rice pounding is the trickiest part of the
process. It is pounded with a long
wooden mallet in a marble pestle. The
rice dough has to be turned when it is piping hot.
So it takes two people, one to pound and one to wet their hands with
cold water and turn the dough. It takes rhythm and getting out of synch could
get someone hurt. I haven’t seen
it happen but I’ve also never volunteered to be the dough-turner.
When the dough is ready, it is placed on a large table,
covered with flour, torn into pieces which are then formed into the mochi dumplings
with filling inside. Amy told Jane that
it is best to make a little parachute with the dough and then roll it around
the filling. Jane is getting pretty good
at it and I still end up eating more than I make. I bought a headscarf while in Japan recently
and thought that wearing it for the ceremony would improve my mochi-making
skills. When Sueharu told me the
Japanese characters said “Banzai!”, I decided that might force me into the dough-turning job and so I gave up the scarf.
Tradition strengthens relationships. It builds families, friends and allies. It is a powerful bond. Jane and I have been so honored by our
friends the Umakoshi’s that making mochi has become an important part of our
lives. While we go through the process
with them, we “talk story” as they say in Hawaii. We share our life stories with each
other. We have watched their families
grow and seen the grandchildren thrive while making mochi. This year, Ma turned to me and said “I was
born in 1914.” Then came a series of
childhood remembrances from Japan that were captivating. How lucky we are to be
able to encounter other cultures and traditions from around the world. The sharing breaks down barriers and brings
us all closer together. Happy New Year.